We are taught all our lives to love one another, give to the needy and sacrifice for those who have less. When we find a love, we must do all we can to please this person in order to keep the relationship strong. By doing all this, we believe we will receive love in return. Our hope is strong that if we do enough, maybe, just maybe, we will receive the love we seek. Unfortunately, the one person who needs our love and attention the most is the one we find the most fault with — ourselves!

How many times have you heard the saying, “Before you can love another, you must love yourself”? Now is the time to make that statement your own. The art of selfishness is to truly love you. If we are to truly love ourselves, then we must accept ourselves exactly as we are perceived — imperfections and all! The next step is to let all others love themselves as well. Let them be just who they are. Unconditional love is tough stuff. Remember, God doesn’t make any junk! Sometimes the flaws we think we have are actually the blessings that others need. Being less than our perception of perfect can make us more acceptable to others because of their own perceived flaws!

Be the gift to the world you were meant to be! Be proud of all you have seen and done in your life because your struggles and triumphs may be the very experiences that enable you to assist the very next person you meet! Think of yourself first. What does self need to obtain the highest good? What does self need in order to deal with the present? It is an art, but the payoff is harmony in all you will deal with, either, personally or professionally.

I am as I am and you are as you are! Nothing is more beautiful!

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