Since recorded time, philosophers and wise people have taught us the art of attraction. They have taught us that we can attract what we want with proper thinking and proper action.

Have you ever seen a person that outwardly appears very unappealing, yet the opposite sex is constantly attracted to them? I know such a person. She has a pear shaped body, is growing older, and is in no way pretty, yet men find her irresistible because she sees herself as a sensual and sexy person. She doesn’t do anything overt, but it just happens. And if you look at many media personalities and really analyze them, they are not gorgeous but have charisma that makes them demonstrate star power. As a person thinks about self one can either have confidence in one’s power of attraction or have the opposite effect. Every time we look in the mirror and see our flaws, rather then our strengths, we negate our positive attraction power.

Love definitely works on the power of attraction. When we see ourselves as unlovable we have difficulty attracting and accepting love. Whether we say to ourselves I am not lovable, love will never find me, I am too old for love or to poor for love we create a message that our body language and energy pushes love away from us. Remember, the opposite of the power of attraction is the power of repulsion or pushing away.

The art of attraction works in all areas of life. Nowhere is it stronger than when we have a poverty consciousness rather than a prosperity consciousness. When we only complain about how poor we are we become more strongly entrenched in poverty. When we give thanks for what we have and live in expectancy of prosperity the opposite is true. The art of attraction is the keystone to manifesting what we desire in life.

Learning to think and act in ways that change our lives is possible. Sometimes it can happen quickly but often it takes time to reprogram our mind to achieve new results. When we turn our emotions and our energy to taking control of what we manifest in our lives, we are taking the first steps to success.

One of the ways one does this is through the use of affirmations. Affirmations are positive messages that we send our conscious and subconscious mind. They are also helpful in replacing negative self-talk because you can only think one thing at a time. I have a personal rescue affirmation, which I use to replace negative thinking. It is: "Everyday in every way things are better and better and better." I have used it for so long just repeating the word better and better and better works. On my cell phone I have the word, “better”, which repeats and I see it whenever I answer my phone or check the time. Affirmations need to be repeated over and over again in order to work. They especially have to be used when negative thinking pops in and tries to attract the opposite of what we desire.

Want to know where your negative core manifests? First, look at your life. What is making you miserable? Your marriage or other relationships? Your financial situation? Your image of self? The quality of your life in general? It is easy to see these once one decides to take control of life. What do you worry about all day long? Remember the start of this essay: A man becomes what he thinks about. That includes women. Constant attention and even depression about the negative attracts more and more negative experiences in life. You can tell your real blocks when you hear yourself saying, "Well, that is all well and good, but…" The words following the, "but" is the clue to where you have to reprogram you so that you can turn your life into the world and life that you deserve.

How old are you? Well, that is how long you have been building up an attraction for negative things to happen in your life. Therefore you cannot expect magically to turn things around in 30 days but with persistence and determination you can step by step change what you are attracting until you will someday wake up and realize that you have changed your reality. Every time you have a negative thought replace it with a positive thought. Every time you say something negative about you, think of something positive about you.

Affirmations are not the only tools to changing what we attract from something negative to something positive. However, today start planting seeds of positivism into your life and in time you will see results.

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