One of the first things a recovering addict must do is eliminate people from their life that promote their addiction. We all have addictions and we attract people who support our addictions and avoid people who think differently than we do about maintaining our lives. Family members especially can be a positive or negative influence.

Without even being aware of it, addicted people often hurt us, not value or respect us and generally withhold love. We learn from our families how to create our self image and what we attract in our lives. We choose friends and lovers that perpetuate this so that we become stuck in negative addictions. When we choose to take control of what we attract to, our lives those around us will try to keep us stuck.

Sometimes the only way to become unstuck is to eliminate people in our lives if they do not accept or support our desire to change. Sometimes just becoming assertive (not aggressive) will teach our friends and family to treat us in the manner we desire. However, the point you need to remember is that you must put "you" first in order to achieve positive attraction and manifestation in your life.

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