They say the best relationships are based on open, honest communication. That's true. Now, if you could only get him to open up. While some men are much more communicative than others, most don't tend to share their thoughts, fears, hopes and dreams as freely as women do. So what's a girl starved for conversation to do? Try a better approach.

Pick the right setting

Men are more comfortable expressing themselves when they're don't feel like they're being pressed to talk. If he's enjoying himself, he might be relaxed enough to really open up. That could be after you've played a sport together, enjoyed a wonderful meal, made love, etc.

Show him how it's done

For him to reveal, you've got to be revealing. Feel free to share your past experiences (though I wouldn't suggest talking about your past relationships)...your favorite music or movies...your hopes and dreams...your fears or fantasies. After a while, he'll do the same with you.

Don't dredge up the past

Men really don't enjoy lingering on the same, sore topic. If he did something to hurt or offend you and he said he's sorry, then it's probably best to accept it and move on.

Try not to judge

If your man is finally opening up, allow him to say whatever he feels. If he's got what you'd call a "wacky idea," try to avoid picking it apart. A lot of people, especially men, have "big dreams" that they probably know are just that: dreams...like learning how to fly or living in another country. In reality, there's no harm in dreaming.

Be a good listener

Now that he's talking, just listen. Don't turn on the television or answer a phone call when he is opening up. Instead of interrupting or interjecting, give him a chance to put things in his own words. It can be hard to keep your mouth shut, sometimes. But being a good listener speaks volumes.

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