You've just met that special someone and made a connection. Or realized you're in love with your best friend! Problem is, you don't know if they feel the same. When pursuing a new relationship, there are a lot of mistakes waiting to happen if you aren't careful. Here's how to avoid heartache:

Go Slow

Passion is a funny thing. On the one hand it makes us feel like we are flying, but it can also make us feel out of control. Whether your new love is an old friend or a stranger, going too fast may push them away. They might be surprised that you feel so strongly, or relieved and excited by your confession. Let them make the next move.

Talk with Your Friends

Get a feeling for what your friends think of your new crush. Do they see a friendly and nice person? A potentially good match for you? Maybe they can't believe you want to date such a thoughtless jerk! If you are head-over-heels, getting outside advice will help you see more clearly.

Give Them Room

Even though you may want to jump into a relationship, your love interest may already be committed to someone else or healing from a recent break-up. Give them room to work out their past relationship issues before you get serious.

Try a Casual Date

It can be hard to ask someone out if you have strong feelings for them, so invite them to a casual date with friends first. Going to a concert, the movies, or just out to lunch with a group will help you relax and be more natural. You'll feel less pressure than an official date and you might have more fun!

Don't Get Angry

If your crush isn't interested in you, don't be angry. They may be having problems with work, friends or relatives that you aren't aware of. You'll be hurt by the rejection, but remember that they were honest about their feelings.

Passion and desire can overwhelm us at times, so it's helpful to be aware of how your emotions are affecting you. If you balance your strong feelings with good judgment, you could find that new crush turning into a lasting romance.

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