• Q:
    I just got back together with my ex-boyfriend and it's only been a week and we're arguing again. Do you think it's a good idea we got back together and do you think he is the one for me? Really confused, Liz
    A:
    Dear Liz,

    I see a lot of anger and hurt feelings between the two of you. Both of you are stubborn and neither will admit they are wrong or be told what to do. Liz, I see you are very jealous and want to know the details of past relationships. And I see your ex hanging on to some events in the past and not letting go. While I don't think the relationship is over, I also don't see a long term relationship either. When you are both in the groove it is great and loving, but when it is bad it can get very ugly.

    All relationships take lots of hard work and unless you both change your negative thinking and long term bad habits, not only will this relationship not work, but future ones are in jeopardy before beginning. We can never change others but we can change ourselves if we try really hard. Begin by accepting others for who and what they are, not what you think they should be. You'll become a happier person and you'll no longer feel like your true love got away. New doors will begin to open and if you focus on creating a loving, committed relationship then one will appear before you.

    I see a strong relationship and a possible soul mate connection for you sometime next summer. This does not mean you won't work things out with your current boyfriend, nor does it mean you won't run into someone else between now and then. Stay positive Liz, and always follow your heart.

    Love, light and happiness,

    Mystic Mother Helen

  • Q:
    I created a safety product a couple of years ago and my ex partner is suing me now that it is making money. Will I win my lawsuit and will my ex-partner become a competitor or move into a different line. Because of the legal action I cannot divulge the company or product. Thanks, Peter
    A:
    Dear Peter, 

    In the end I do see that you will win your lawsuit. I sense that you may have to switch to another attorney along the way. I am not too sure if the second attorney is someone else in the same firm or another attorney all together. I do see that at the end you will win the lawsuit and have the extensive legal fees paid for, something which has caused a lot of stress between you and your father in-law. As for your ex-partner, I do not see him in your future.

    I feel you have a lot of anger over this situation and you need to find ways to relieve the anxiety and tensions. I recommend a therapist or group support that will offer you a place to vent your feelings. In the meantime, move through your life with this in the back of your head, not in the front where it currently lies and where it affects your everyday feelings. Don't let what others did to you take over your life. Your wife, friends and someone named William can help you out the most. Now is the time to concentrate on what will happen after the case. Your future you, not the one in the middle of this legal entanglement, is the one to protect the most. Move forward Peter and deal with positive elements that you have control over. You are very practical, logical and open-minded. You will need these skills and a strong attitude to win. This lawsuit is merely a side step to what awaits. You are intelligent and passionate about your ideas and can do anything you put your mind to.  

    Much blessing and good hope,

    Reader Hope

  • Q:
    Jim and I were really good friends and he then led me on that there would be more but nothing happened. We still talk and sometimes get together but we aren't moving anywhere towards a relationship. I feel like I'm stuck. Do I go looking for a real boyfriend or wait things out? Did I do something wrong? Is he coming back?
    - Joanne
    A:
    Dear Joanne,

    Jim overstepped his boundaries in making you believe that the relationship would lead to higher levels. I do see a connection between the two of you, but I hate to break it to you but I do not see Jim changing his ways and coming back to you. Yes, he calls and yes he cares but a full blown relationship will not develop between the two of you. I am sorry. But Joanne, you are only as stuck as you allow yourself to be. You spend too much of your time thinking about him and what he's doing and why the relationship didn't develop. You need to stop that right now! Going over and over it again in your head will not make it work nor will you find some secret reason why it didn't develop. The more you think about Jim and what went wrong, the more you'll never find an answer. There is none.

    If you start to put your energy away from what happened and instead think about yourself and your needs first, then you will be on the right path for recovery. Look to your friends and their energy and before you know it you'll stop thinking about what happened and allow yourself to move forward. I do see that you will find a wonderful man soon who will also be your best friend. I see the initials of SE or BW. This may be your future man or just someone else. Either way I see this person as a positive influence in your life. Your future looks bright and it will be whatever you make of it. Good luck!

    Bright Blessing and a wonderful tomorrow,

    Mystic Mother Helen